December 2012
1 post
You so silly people of Omegle
You’re now chatting with a random stranger. Say hi!
You: Hello random person.
Stranger: hello sir/madam
Stranger: how ru this fine evening
You: I am ok, watching Night at the Roxbury, could definitely be worse.
Stranger: i’ve heard that title
Stranger: ahh will ferrel
Stranger: *ferrell
You: yep yep
You: classic
You: so, what is your passion?
Stranger: classical...
October 2012
1 post
September 2012
2 posts
My dad's point of view
I talk to my dad about almost all of the issues in our lives. One of the main ones as a gay man is marriage equality.
Of course I am in favor of it, and I thought that once I came out to my dad he would also want me to be able to marry by default of having a gay son. Unfortunately that is not the case.
I have gone back and forth with him on this issue, he still holds the same thoughts.
I am not...
August 2012
2 posts
Love Equality
As a gay man, I am of course in favor of marriage equality and I believe that in my lifetime I will be able to marry (not enter a Civil Union with) my future husband.
However, I think that things would be much easier and faster if my counterparts fighting for this right went about it in a different way.
At the heart of the debate on the pro gay side is that we want the same rights as...
The Changing of times
So I am changing my posts that are only seen by one “follower” who is probably not reading them anyway to my three favorite things.
1. Music
2. Soccer
3. Guys (Specifically Tommy)
All three of them enhance the happyness that is in me and make me want to be a better person everyday.
Enjoi
June 2012
2 posts
Reasons why I am "Anti-Theist"
I want to say that the biggest reason why I don’t have faith in a particular Deity or god is my upbringing. I was never indoctrinated into that lifestyle.
Sure I was brought to church and was baptized as a kid, but it was never about following the rules in order to become a devout follower of a certain faith.
It is only by coincidence that I was not born into a fundamentally religious...
Hello again
Haven’t posted anything in a while (not that anyone is reading this anyways) but I hace come to one conclusion in my absence.
My happyness doesn’t come from anyone else but me. I don’t need a boy, a nice job or a ton of money to be happy.
I’m not saying that any of those things would make me sad, they just aren’t the supply of my happyness.
Justin, I wish the...
May 2012
4 posts
Treasure Hunt
Last night I went on an adventure with Tyler just like old times.
We went into a giant field spanning many acres and found a couple old houses, an abandoned siloh and a car.
I met a couple of his friend’s from Richmond Burton, Pierre was definitely a guy I could go for.
I gave Tyler and Bria a ride home where I saw his mom and dad and the kids again for the first time in over 3 years.
It...
Why?
How have I changed in any way to deserve what has been said about me? I have lived next door to them for about 6 years now and up until recently, there has been nothing wrong with our relationship. I have come over to babysit maybe twice, I taught their daughter some math and came over for the Super Bowl and a get together here and there. Now that you know that I am gay (I have known since before...
April 2012
8 posts
How we have changed.
Tyler showing up on my doorstep forced me to really see how much I have changed over the last couple years.
First, I took a leap of faith and quit Henny Penny in a Dane Cook style fit of rage…
I have held many positions at my current job pushing myself to farther than I ever thought I would go with a company. In the process winning multiple awards, including a corporate mandated one...
Le Oldy Times
I just saw Tyler for the first time in almost 3 and a half years tonight. I am high on ten to say the least.
I can’t believe how much he hasn’t changed… Especially to how much I have.
He is still doing his crazy church craziness, to each their own. I hope he is truly happy there. If anyone deserves to be happy it is the nicest, most caring guy I have ever had the pleasure of...
Michelle's Wedding
I was the videographer for the wedding and u hope it comes out alright. I noticed I shook a lot even though I had a tripod.
I guess that is ok since I was paid much less than a professional would have been paid.
Other than that the ceremony and reception was beautiful and super fun.
Craig’s toast was so beautiful and I am pretty sure that you fan hear me snuggling to hold back from...
1 girl 5 gays (again)
I thought my dad was going to go upstairs for bed last night so I started watching 1G5G but he decided to stay downstairs. That was interesting.
It didn’t help that the first two questions were full on gay sex questions, but the fact that they weren’t “masculine” made my dad uncomfortable. I am starting to wonder if he does have gay friends since not many gay guys act like...
Day Four of No Cell Phone Week
It definitely sucks not being able to instantly contact someone when you see something awesome or want to tell a joke, whatever is on your mind.
I have noticed though that the people who really want to contact you and keep a conversation going, even though they know you don’t have a cell phone, will do so however they can. It is very easy to tell the people who care about you apart from the...
Day One of No Cell Phone Week
Not as hard as I thought it was going to be. Other than not being able to text Mindy on Saturday about the wedding, this seems like it will be a walk in the park.
I am doing this for 2 reasons:
1. It is on my bucket list and I want to cross something off that list every month.
2. I want to see if Tom is going to contact me during the week.
(99% because it is something on my bucket list)
I...
Another lesson gone unlearned
Why do I keep putting myself in these situations?
I put myself out there very easily in the beginning and I rarely see it reciprocated.
It has been a habbit of mine since I could remember, why don’t I learn from past relationships?
I keep thinking of why things are the way they are, but it all comes down to Tom not putting in an effort.
He seemed fine with putting in an effort a week...
March 2012
2 posts
Not that popular of an idea these days
Tonight we talked about sex and its connection to love.
I said I would rather eat a bull’s undesirables than sleep with a stripper.
I absolutely meant it, I will always share that with someone I connect with on a deeper level, call me a hopeless romantic.
I don’t know if you are who I am supposed to share that with, but I sure hope so.
I like you very much so far and I don’t see myself sharing...
My Big Heart
One of your favorite things to tell me is how big my heart is.
Unfortunately that big heart is from a tragic event in my life.
When I was 11, my mother passed away from a stroke.
The tattoo on my shoulder blade I told you about is for her.
It says “Nothing Stands Between a Man and His Maker”. A lyric from my favorite band August Burns Red.
I am anxious in telling you about...
